Dating and relationships

“Embracing Your Worth: Lessons from the Snake Charm”

12/12/2023

Hey beautiful souls,

Here’s a little tale that came to me when I was camping down south in the blistering heat.

Picture this – bushland, snakes, and a friend’s property. She warned me because of the heat, there would be some snakes around, and her exact words were, ‘Snakes are always there, and you might see them, but you don’t need to cuddle them’. I spent the first three days stomping around every time I walked on the land, full of fear of snakes in the grass.

Then it hit me – snakes have a lower vibrational energy than humans, but some humans operate at a lower vibrational energy than most. It’s these humans that you need to be aware of as these are the kinds that can cause harm and hurt you. You see, those with lower self-worth often play the victim to these snakey characters, trying to scoop people up, fix them, and make everyone okay. But here’s the thing: cuddling snakes, or these energy-draining beings, only lead to them taking more and more.

It’s not your job to attract or seek out snakes to cuddle. Admire them from a distance, recognizing their charm, manipulation, and sleek charisma. But don’t let them pull you into their world. Toxic relationships, like those with narcissistic partners, often resemble this snake-charming dance. It’s about fixing what can’t be fixed, cuddling those who’ll keep on taking, using and ultimately harming you.

You wouldn’t cuddle a snake, so don’t cuddle a snake in human form.

Remember, it’s not your job. Your worth is immeasurable, deserving of love and hugs from high-vibrational souls. You control your path, and you’re worthy of the life you dream of. Don’t let anyone, snake or not, steal your dreams or divert your course.

Stay on your self-worth journey. Make some noise, frighten away those lower energies, and keep walking. Your soul is soaring, and you’re worth so much more. Sending all my love your way.

Keep shining,

Emxx

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Hi, I'm Emma Ritchie

For years, I struggled with low self-worth, self-doubt, and a deep disconnection from who I truly was. I wore the mask, played the roles, and did what I thought I should do—but inside, I felt lost. It wasn’t until I turned inward and began healing the relationship I had with myself that everything changed.

Real transformation starts when you work at the level of your energy, emotions, and mind—because only then can your behaviours shift and your outer world reflect your inner truth.

Today, my greatest passion is helping others do the same. I support people to integrate all parts of themselves—the light, the shadow, the wounds, the wisdom—and to dissolve the layers of judgement, shame, and not-enoughness that keep them small.

When you shift how you relate to yourself, everything begins to align.
You step into confidence, clarity, and calm—inside and out.
You stop waiting for permission and start creating the life you were born to live.
You call back your power.
You remember who you truly are.

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